A Westcliff man has been given a 10-year restraining order and a suspended prison sentence after pleading guilty to controlling and coercive behaviour over a three-year period.
Daniel Ashbrook, 41, of Northview Drive, appeared at Chelmsford Crown Court on 29 November 2024, where he admitted to mentally, physically, and emotionally abusing a woman, systematically isolating her from loved ones and attempting to control every aspect of her life. His sentencing took place on 11 February 2025.
Ashbrook’s campaign of abuse included preventing the woman from seeing her family and friends, often showing up uninvited when she tried to socialise. He also subjected her to frequent verbal abuse, both in person and through phone calls and text messages. In more extreme attempts to control her movements, he damaged her car on multiple occasions to stop her from leaving or going to work.
Sentence and penalties
Ashbrook was sentenced to 21 months in prison, suspended for two years. In addition to the 10-year restraining order, which legally forbids him from contacting the victim, he has been ordered to pay £1,500 in compensation, complete 180 hours of unpaid community work, and participate in 20 days of rehabilitation activity.
If Ashbrook breaches any condition of the restraining order, he faces immediate imprisonment.
Victim’s ordeal and recovery
The woman, whose courage in coming forward helped secure Ashbrook’s conviction, spoke candidly about the profound impact his behaviour has had on her life. She said:
“Without the support of my friends, family, and the police, I would certainly not be in the position I’m in today – or even be here today.”
The emotional and psychological scars left by Ashbrook’s abuse continue to affect her daily life. She revealed that she has changed her appearance, altered her daily routines, and even avoided certain places out of fear of being found.
“This has taken a huge toll on my independence and confidence. If I’m out on my own, I quickly feel anxious and exposed. The impact his behaviour has had on me has affected my relationships with friends and family too. It’s a horrible position to be in,” she explained.
Despite the lingering trauma, she expressed relief at the sentencing:
“I’m glad he’s been sentenced. Knowing there is a restraining order in place and that he’s been sentenced is a step to recovering from what he did. It was difficult, but I’m glad I spoke to the officers, and I appreciate all the support they’ve given me.”
Police commendation and message of support
Acting Police Sergeant Jay Smith, who led the investigation, praised the victim’s bravery:
“I’d like to thank the victim in this case for speaking to the police. If anyone finds themselves subject to behaviour like this, then please contact us – you will be listened to and you will be supported.”
He continued:
“Ashbrook tightened his grip on the woman over time, belittling her and controlling her movements, ultimately trying to isolate her and break her down. I’d like to commend her bravery for coming forward, staying on board throughout the criminal justice process, and speaking of her traumatic experience despite those attempts.”
Sergeant Smith also warned that Ashbrook would be closely monitored to ensure he complies with the court’s conditions:
“He now faces a prison sentence if he breaches his restraining order, and our officers will be closely monitoring him to ensure he follows the conditions the court has set out.”
Seeking help and support
This case serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of seeking help in abusive situations. If you or someone you know is experiencing controlling or coercive behaviour, you are urged to reach out to local authorities or domestic abuse support services.
The National Domestic Abuse Helpline is open 24/7 for free and confidential advice. Telephone: 0808 2000 247.